I Didn't Realize How Miserable I Was On Dating Apps Until I Deleted Them

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I was tired of meeting guys the usual way—through friends, mainly—so I. It was such a rush! Sadly, I only realized how bad they were for me when I deleted them. At first, they were kind of exciting. Signing up to loads of dating apps felt empowering. I was taking action in my love life. I was and making things happen. Plus, I was really excited about who I might meet. All that swiping got boring after a while. After a couple of weeks, I got into a daily routine. It was weird to see how many freaks were in the dating scene. Being active on several dating apps simultaneously was quite creepy, I must admit. There were so many shady guys out there. After two weeks of suffering fools on dating apps, I was losing hope about dating, and fast. Dating became a chore. The problem was that without feeling any excitement for using these apps, I started treating dating like a boring chore, like ironing or doing grocery shopping. Clearly, there was no pleasure in this process. I know dating can be hard work but I was bored and stressed when doing it. My stress took a back seat. Immediately after I deleted them, I felt so much happier and calmer. I swear, that had really messed with my head. I stopped killing my game. I was probably coming across as desperate or defensive. I saw this with one guy I started chatting to. He flirted right away, complimenting my looks, and immediately I stopped talking to him. I assumed he was going to suggest nude pics or something equally shady, just like so many guys before him. Talk about jumping the gun. I had no idea what he was really like! I was letting my new cynicism take over. I deleted all the dating apps on my phone and freed up my life for some real living. I committed to staying off the apps until I stopped feeling dating burnout, which took a total of six months. I was out there living and loving life. I realized that the best dating strategy for me was to meet someone great in a more natural way and only to head back to dating apps if I could stop taking them so seriously. I did go back in the end. I worked from home, which also cut down my chances of meeting someone in real life, so I decided to go back onto dating apps. This time, I played the game totally differently. Giulia is a freelance writer living in Johannesburg, South Africa. She writes for local and international websites, with a special interest in writing about dating. In her spare time, she can be found blissed out in a bookstore or writing fiction of her own. She loves Oscar Wilde, organic beauty products and Italian food. Have something to say?

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